What Others Want, What You Want
It can be easy to get sucked into what other people want, let alone what other people want for you. I recently experienced the former. And it wasn't even an active "you should do this!" thing. It was a passive entrancement. More like, "They have X, maybe I should want to have X too!"
What's right for someone else right now might not be right for you, no matter how great it sounds. As my friend Jeff Lynne famously sang, hold on tight to your dream. Emphasis on your. It's your life, not theirs. It's your choice, not theirs.
(And please vote.)